Hi !! This is my 2nd article which is sort of related to my previous post "The 3 Mantras".This article is dedicated to all the young people who are yet to get married.Specially meant for Ladies out there.This is an Article with regards to "Marriages in India", Which I like to call as

"Don't Gamble with Marriage"

As Chanakya said "Learn from the mistakes of others... you can't live long enough to make them all yourselves!! Some mistakes we make & learn a lesson from life, And some lessons of life are learnt from mistakes made by others. 

I am going to tell you a very important lesson that I happened to learn from our elders of the society. And I 'd like to tell you "Why is the lesson so Important". The answer is very simple, You get only one shot when it comes to Marriage!!

"Its okay if you vote to the wrong leader,

  But Its Not Okay to tie Knot to the wrong person"

Because you get to change the leader in every 5 years, But you don't get that option in Marriage. Do you??

Being Optimistic is Just not enough for marriage.Its No Gambling!! You need to be confident!!

You need to be confident about the person in the marriage. Indian parents usually go with the "Hope" that the match that they 'd have found for their child would just workout Great but at times it goes Screwed up!!

In this scenario parents believe that,

a) They know what is the best for their Child

b) Their Kid is not Wise or Mature enough to Find the match for themselves and they are worried about their Age.

But the fact is, 

a) Parents don't know what is the best for their Child when it comes to marriage. Its only you who could know if the person is for best for you.

b)If you don't know if the person is best for you, Clearly you are yet to be wise or mature to take such important decisions as your parents think about you. And Probably you shouldn't get married. Trust me Marriage is not about the age!!

In India, There is an umbilical cord with "Hope/उम्मीद" when it comes to marriage. Its just not one of the reason. Its the soul base for Marriage.
If I may give a Poker reference to this scenario, Its All In!!! If you are lucky , You win or else You are so Damn Screwed !!

When Its upon luck, The marriage might bring you Happiness or Adjustment!! 

If the entire life turns out to be adjustment and appeasing the other person, then Its just another corporate job which you can not Resign Ever!!! Never Ever!!!

So Please, Don't marry someone unless you are confident about them!!!


Please think about it and Thanks for reading!!!